Mama's boy - Dustin Lance Black

SHORTLISTED FOR THE 2020 POLARI PRIZE

'A magnificent achievement . . . I cannot remember a book where I cried so often. Brave, insightful, unflinching, funny, sad, triumphant . . . everything. And both a warning and a hope for the times to come' STEPHEN FRY

Dustin Lance Black wrote the Oscar-winning screenplay for Milk and helped overturn California's anti-gay marriage Proposition 8, but he grew up in a conservative
Mormon household outside San Antonio, Texas. His mother, Anne, was raised in
rural Louisiana, and contracted polio when she was two years old. She endured
brutal surgeries, as well as braces and crutches for life, and was told that
she would never have children or a family. Willfully defying expectations,
she found salvation in an unlikely faith, raised three sons, and escaped the
abuse and violence of two questionably devised Mormon marriages before
finding love and an improbable career in the U.S. civil service.

When Lance came out to his mother at twenty-one, he
was already studying the arts instead of going on his Mormon mission. She
derided his sexuality as a sinful choice and was terrified for his future. Mama's Boy explores what it took to
remain a family despite such division-a journey that stretched from the steps
of the U.S. Supreme Court to the woodsheds of East Texas. In the end, the
rifts that have split a nation couldn't end this relationship that defined
and inspired their remarkable lives.

Mama's Boy is their
story. It's a story of the noble quest for a plane higher than politics - one
of family, foundations, turmoil, tragedy, elation, and love. It is a story
needed now more than ever.

'To outsiders, my mom and I should have been enemies. Our house should have been divided -- North vs South, red vs blue, conservative vs progressive, or however you want to put it. Instead, my mom and I fuelled each other. Her oil lit my lamp, and eventually mine lit hers. The tools I'd learned to wield growing up in her conservative, Christian, southern, military home were the same I'd used to wage battles that had taken me from a broken-down welfare apartment where gunfire sang me to sleep, to the biggest stages in the world, and to the front row of the United States Supreme Court to fight for LGBTQ equality.'