Men Who Love Too Much - Taty Ades

Pathological love is characterized by an extreme care and attention behavior, completely uncontrolled, in a love relationship. Human society meets uncountable cases, as Plato explains in "The Banquet," which differs possessive love - the one which persecutes the other person, torments him/her until he/she gets what he/she wanted - from the divine love - which frees the suffering of someone. Perhaps the most known case in Greek mythology is Ares and Aphrodite's love affair, which gave birth to Eros (Cupid), the god of love, the god of uncontrolled passion. This kind of passion is compatible to uncountable ways of identifying a pathological love. Sometimes it's a pure, innocent and encouraging form and, some other times, it's destructive, revengeful and blind, lacking truly love sense. Who is wounded with an arrow by Cupid stays blind of love. In some situations, we may say that there is some obstinacy or some kind of blindness, contrasting to an occult truth which exists in real exchange necessities in a relationship. In both aspects, the masculine and the feminine ones, there are behavior patterns which we can undoubtedly attribute to a genetic inheritance, but society's evolution has demonstrated and exposed even more an emotional irritation which gets lost between different pathologies. Nevertheless, is pathological love cause or effect? Or is it just a myth designated to solve simple human shortages? In this book you will find specific treatment for men that, deep inside, cannot be detached from women treatment. We are both genders, although duality has truly assumed our emotional story. We may talk about masculine love in a feminine canvass as she represents the founder humanity in the end. Forgotten, unclaimed, with no votes or leading rights and with some exceptions which made history, women are men's universe matrix, because there is no masculine matrix for the universe. The man didn't consciously hand down women's finesse from society or his own genetic heritage, and maybe this lack of exercises is the reason of so many detours created by the masculine custom of being a man, the provider, the hunter or the patriarch. Masculine sexuality became a bounden pattern, a part of culture, social bequest and even an ethical engagement, which is the main pattern to all children, teens and adults.