The entitlement trap - Richard M. Eyre

Number-one New York Times bestselling authors Richard and
Linda Eyre, have spent the last twenty-five years helping parents
nurture strong, healthy families. Now they've synthesized their vast
experience in an essential blueprint to instilling children with a
sense of ownership, responsibility, and self-sufficiency. At the heart
of their plan is the "Family Economy" complete with a family bank,
checkbooks for kids, and a system of initiative-building
responsibilities that teaches kids to earn money for the things they
want. The motivation carries over to ownership of their own decisions,
values, and goals. Anecdotal, time-tested, and gently humorous, The
Entitlement Trap challenges some of the sacred cows of parenting
and replaces them with values that will save kids (and their parents)
from a lifetime of dependence and disabling debt.